This last week has been really strange, but at the same time very filled with blessings and reminders that the Lord is watching out for us even in the little things. These last few months have been financially taxing on us. I work less over the holidays and we of course have lots of holidays and birthdays and anniversary to celebrate. We moved in January. Basically it all adds up to having less money floating around than I'm comfortable with. So at the beginning of last week when the washing machine seemingly stopped working, it was a huge deal. We traded our two year-old set to our friends when we moved into this house because ours didn't fit here and theirs did and their new place had room for ours. It was a good switch, but the machines they left were way older, though seemingly in perfect working order.
Between Bill and me, we can generally fix most things in our house. We're pretty good at DIYing or finding help if we have questions. So we diagnosed the problem, got the part, and waited a few days for it to arrive, all while being unable to wash anything, which is kind of a huge deal with three kids four and under. But we survived with some help from friends doing a few loads for us. Then last Friday afternoon I got the part and installed it only to find that it didn't fix the problem. The other thing it could have been was too much money to be worth it, so we were left scrambling to get a new washer immediately.
Saturday we planned to go buy one, maybe used, but likely new because there weren't good used options for front loaders available. That put the price point significantly higher than we could afford, but we didn't really have much of a choice. I asked a friend to watch the older kids and she said sure but they were going to get a swingset from a friend so she'd just take my kids along. Without a second thought I offered us to help them do that and then take our kids. So we headed over to help. Turns out it wasn't a swing set but instead one of those wooden forts, so it was a pretty involved process to take it apart. It took several hours, but we had a great time with our friends taking it apart while our kids played together. When we were about done I started chatting with the other friend we were getting the fort from. Her family is moving out of state in a few months and turns out they had things they were planning to get rid of.
So in what could only be described as a sweet blessing from heaven, because there's no way coincidence could cover this, we walked away with a significantly newer washer/dryer set for a price we could afford, one of those sewing cabinets with a weighted table, two bikes, and a bookshelf perfect for toys in the kids' room.
Bill and I were totally blown away. It all came because I offered to help a friend. It made me really grateful for parents, leaders, life experiences such that I enjoy lending a helping hand and it doesn't seem like an inconvenience. I felt very grateful for that this weekend.
I thought the story would end there, but there's actually more. We picked up the washer/dryer Monday and brought it home to install. Our nice neighbor helped us get it in the house and installed, which was quite the trick since the location for this set is obviously retrofitted and only just big enough. We had it all set up and turned the power on only to have it not start. Oh no! It was an utterly deflating moment. I did some acrobatics climbing over the machine to get behind it in this tight, three-walled space it sits in, and discovered that in fact the wall outlet had gone bad somehow. The thought had never crossed my mind to test that. The dryer worked fine, so we just assumed it was a washer issue and went with it. Turns out our old washer still works just fine and the next morning our landlord was there and figured out the problem, a loose screw in the breaker box, and it was fixed.
All I can say is I am so grateful we didn't purchase a new washer, that we went to help our friends and got the amazing deal on their set. So now we have a significantly newer washer/dryer that fits a few needs that the older one didn't do so well, and the old set that we can sell to hopefully cover the cost. So yesterday I put it up on Craigslist and surprise of surprises got a bite on it almost immediately from a person willing to pay extra to ensure she could get it and pick it up in a few days. So that is still in process, but it will cover the cost of the new set we got as well as leave some extra leftover for whatever else we need. Holy blessings! I can't help but feel like the Lord was enjoying sending down these many, many blessings on us. It was a convoluted week but we walked away with so much more after what ended up being a much more minor trial than it at first seemed. I feel very blessed right now.